Network Marketing: Creating A Positive Mindset
Here’s a lesson I learned in positive mindset and
critical thinking. It’s also a lesson I learned,
just now as I am editing this post, about The Law
Why is it you think that some people are drawn
to you and some aren’t?
Why is it you think that you are drawn to some
people and others, not so much?
After your having purchased and bought into
every product and opportunity you still
have ABSOLUTELY NO success
in selling, distributing, or promoting these
products…and you’re wondering to yourself
How the heck do these people do this?
How are they attracting the people to them to
not only buy their stuff, but follow them, listen
to them and become their loyal fan base?
Even after everyone is creating massive amounts of
dollars every month, showing paycheck after
paycheck and winning all kinds of accolades
YOU’RE STILL sitting at your computer wondering to
yourself, is this really for real?
Moreover, your question keeps coming back to
is this really real for ME?
All the while, you’re dreams and your desires
and your goals are begging you to take the leap of
faith because seriously it’s all you’ve got right now as
you stare up from the abyss of debt that’s amassed all
Yet, how do I ‘attract’ this abundance into my life?
All you want is to feel that sense of freedom and
take a big deep sigh of personal peace knowing that
you too have money in the bank, have paid your bills,
have enough to put your kids through college, give
money to your causes, and love life the way YOU
That’s all we want (well, basically).
And that’s what this business,
this industry of network marketing offers.
The dream of living the life of YOUR DREAMS.
In your continued sense of optimism, you take to
your computer and you find an opportunity you
resonate with and you ‘go for it’.
Only to find that you’ve
busted another gut trying like heck to tell people about
this amazing opportunity you’re using.
We’ve all heard it before, “It’s Not The Product” People
don’t buy a product, they buy YOU!
You’re at a loss. How am I to get them to like me
if they won’t even listen to me in the first place?
You shrink back into your computer chair.
Listless, lifeless and full of doubt.
Sometimes you cry.
I’ve felt it. I know. I can feel your pain.
To coin the phrase,
“I’ve walked in the shoes”… of debt,
homelessness, fear, loneliness,
pain, hunger, sleepless nights in my car with my two
dogs having the police bang on my window yelling at me to
get out of the parking lot and “…find a home.”
“I don’t have a home…”
I would say in a whisper as
tears would well
up in my eyes and I would turn on the
car to drive and find another place
I could put my head down,
if only for a few moments
before the next interruption.
I’ve worked this business for over 3+ years
It’s been a struggle and a curse and a blessing all at once.
I’m going to share a story with you from the heart, for
real and you can call me out on it anytime you see me,
or anytime you just want to talk to me over the phone…
by the way, my phone number is below.
It was not too long ago that
I was told by someone whom I really respected and
admired that I was a pathetic piece of shit.
No, I kid you not.
In fact, this ‘coach’ as they referred to themselves as,
was preaching to many people during their
powerful calls that the DREAM is ours
to be lived and attained.
After reading my personal statements of desire and lifelong
goals, they told me straight out that not only was I pathetic,
but that MY DREAMS were pathetic and so was my entire life.
In fact, according to them,
I was a meaningless piece of crap.
How could I be hearing this?
I was hearing such positivity and like-minded
thoughts from this person.
I had heard these powerful messages that
resonated with me and truly was
in awe of their amazing ability to speak eloquently
and with such succinct discipline.
Yet, when it came to me personally,
according to them
I was not worthy of the time
of day from anyone in this industry.
And, in this private conversation
an even harder blow to my psyche
and my vulnerability this
person referred to my age saying,
”…and you have a few years on all of
us so why don’t you just don’t go
get a j.o.b….”
Yep, that is the God’s Honest Truth my friend.
I was told I didn’t “get it” and that
I “stood for nothing”. I was nothing.
In fact, I wasn’t even
worthy of them speaking to me
anymore and was abruptly hung up on
and forever banished from their life.
Wow! That was a slap in the face and
a punch in the stomach. I gasped for a breath
and worked to gain my composure as I struggled
with my insecurities.
And then….a moment of clarity.
I’ve been in this business for over 3+
years and have had my share of
struggles, trials and tribulations.
I’ve met others who’ve struggled too.
I’ve yet met others who are inspirations
to me and whom I have forged great
friendships and relationships with as
I’ve traversed into the network marketing
community as a Leader becoming well
known in the circles of the 7 and 8
Who was this person to invalidate me
with their speach?
Who were they to judge ME?
And to be so exceedingly cruel to negatively
demean and humiliate my dreams,
my life and my love for who I
have become and who I am as a person?
I don’t think I need to answer that question.
Here’s the reason I’m sharing this story with you today.
I want you
to know your continued faith
in this industry
is your continued faith in YOU.
I believe wholeheartedly we both are
capable of creating the life of our
dreams in this business if we sincerely believe in
I could have taken this terribly and could have really
worked myself into a place of demise, demoralization,
deception, and massive depression. Especially
since the trust factor was involved.
I could have let this person’s words to
me resonate with the most
insecure and vulnerable side of me.
Instead, I chose not to listen.
Have you had a similar situation happen to you?
Have you had people make fun of your dreams?
Have you had people debase, disparage and demean
you and your dreams?
LISTEN TO YOUR INNER SELF.
Listen to YOU.
The beautiful person inside of YOU.
This person inside of you is telling you
to STOP and listen to yourself and
find your true love, your true passion,
your true life by design. Whatever that
Yes, you can make money online.
Yes, you can make money selling other
Yes, you can achieve a significant income
YES, you are capable, beautiful, amazing,
all powerful and an incredibly talented
individual on this planet.
So, I wanted to share this story with you because
it rings true for many of us.
Many of us are humiliated by our friends,
family and sometimes
(albeit, this is the first time it’s ever happened to me)
by our mentors whom we have put our trust in
There is a light at the end of the tunnel my friend
and you are that light. YOU have everything
inside you that you need to succeed and success
is already IN YOU.
Believe in yourself, believe in what you’re doing,
believe in creating a life by design and for God’s Sake
Do Not Ever Listen to Anyone Ever Tell You Otherwise.
Peace, love and light from the heart,
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